Who is a doula?
A doula — a family and birth supporter — helps create a positive experience of pregnancy and birth, supporting the readiness of the mother, father and baby for the birth. Birth support includes physical, emotional and informational support.
The cooperation between a doula and an expecting woman begins already before the birth — it is important to take time and prepare both physically and mentally so that the birth can unfold as planned. Because every pregnancy and birth is unique and different, support is needed not only by first-time mothers but also by women who have given birth before.
It is very important that the mother is relaxed and calm at the birth, trusting the strength of her body and her intuition. The doula is dedicated to making sure that the mother, the baby and everyone else present at the birth (at a home birth also older children and other family members) feel as good and safe as possible. If the birth takes place in a hospital, the doula also keeps an eye on the birth plan being followed, so that everything unfolds just as the woman wished. Statistics show that births where a doula is also present are shorter and families are more satisfied with the birth experience.
The birth supporter is there for the family also after the baby arrives, staying with the woman after the birth and visiting the family in the postpartum period as well. Various studies show that women who use a doula's help during pregnancy and birth experience less postpartum depression.
- I am there for you during pregnancy — we will certainly meet to get to know each other, but I am also there for you by phone, message or email. You can choose how often we are in touch yourself, according to your needs and wishes.
- I come to the birth as soon as you need it and feel that the time is right for you — I am available around the clock. For a hospital birth I am there for you even before going to the maternity hospital, supporting you in your own home.
- After the birth I stay with you for at least 2 more hours and visit the family again 24 hours after the birth. I also offer lactation consultation.
How can a doula help?
During pregnancy I can support you, for example, with these topics:
- Nutrition during pregnancy
- Lifestyle during pregnancy
- Movement, sport and yoga during pregnancy
- The physiology of birth
- Emotional and physical preparation for birth
- Releasing fears, talking through worries
- Relieving pregnancy-related discomforts
- We put together a birth plan together
- Introducing and trying out birth positions
- We discuss the role of the support person at the birth
- Breathing techniques
- Relaxation techniques
- Meditation — what it is good for and whether it suits everyone
- Analysis of previous birth experiences
- Rebozo scarf techniques
- We discuss what to prepare for both a hospital and a home birth
- Pregnancy-related discomforts — for example nausea, back pain
At the birth I offer support:
- Breathing together through the contractions
- Massage
- Easing fears
- Finding solutions to worries
- Homeopathy
- Aromatherapy (essential oils)
- Attention throughout the whole birth
- Creating an atmosphere, a safe environment
- Emotional support
- Support for the support person too (if a husband, sister, mother or friend is also present at the birth)
- Keeping an eye on the birth plan
Important topics in the postpartum period:
- Breastfeeding
- Practical baby care (nappies, dressing, body care, bathing, etc.)
- Motherhood and fatherhood — we discuss any worries that arise
- Adjusting to the new role and to the baby, the bond forming between baby and mother
- Family members adjusting to the changes
- Postpartum rest — I let you rest and help with looking after the baby
- I help prepare restorative foods for recovery after birth
- Caring for pets — for example a walk
- Looking after older children already in the family, adjusting to a sister or brother
- I help with keeping the home in order, household chores and shopping
- Baby crying
- Sleep rhythm
- Discussing the birth story
- Bengkung binding — wrapping the belly with a long scarf, used for faster recovery from birth
- Different techniques for holding and carrying the baby
- Rebozo scarf techniques / massage
- Nighttime doula — if you want to rest at night
In lactation consultation I help with:
- We check the baby's latch and guide if needed
- Different positions suitable for breastfeeding, we find the best for you and the baby
- If breastfeeding is painful, we find the cause and the solution
- Nutrition while breastfeeding, what to do if the baby has gas
- If a newborn refuses the breast
- Bottle feeding and dummy use, how they affect breastfeeding
- Whether there is enough milk, the baby's weight gain
- Feeding times — how often to breastfeed
- Breast milk versus formula
- Breast conditions — for example mastitis
- Weaning from the breast
- Starting complementary foods